In his down-to-earth, sincere and often humorous style, Joseph Matthews spills the beans on how to powerfully meet, flirt with, and attract any woman you want. In his book The Art Of Approaching, you'll learn how to create unsoppable confidence, read a woman like a book so you know exactly whether or not she likes you, and step-by-step tactics that makes meeting women not only easy, but fun too!

Top Approaching Tips For Men Who Want To Meet Women

by Joseph Matthews

Every man out there should learn how to approach women, because if he doesn't, he is missing out on the vital first step for finding the girl of his dreams and forming a relationship with her...

You have to know how to approach a girl in the right manner if you want to have success with your pickup. The following are some proven tips I'd recommend you do to help you be successful in meeting women!

Have you ever approached a girl with what you thought was the best pickup line ever, but she freaked out when you tapped her on the shoulder?

Getting rejected right off the bat can be painful, but this is why you need to know the secrets to approaching women the right way! Once you've "blown it" with a girl, it is
extremely hard to recover.

The most important thing to remember when approaching women is to come off as NON-THREATENING and to not, under any circumstances, telegraph your interest in them too early.

This is all about coming in "under the radar."

It's the woman's reality that she constantly gets guys approaching her and trying to pick her up, so her natural inclination is to nip this in the bud quickly by outright REJECTING any man who seems interested in her.

This is because women get hit on SO MUCH by men, they just don't want to deal with yet another guy coming up and wasting their time.

Approaching women can be both easy AND fun when you know how to do it RIGHT.

I guess the big question is - what's the right way to approach a woman?

The first secret is - DO NOT HESITATE!

If you hesitate and let the opportunity pass you by, you're never going to experience success. Giving yourself time to talk yourself out of approaching a girl will never get you
anywhere, so it's important you act quickly and JUST DO IT.

Another tip - know what to say BEFORE you approach a woman! Meeting women becomes so much easier when you don't have to waste time thinking of what to say to her to start a conversation.

So having a good pick-up line in your hip pocket to use in these situations is probably a good idea.

But don't confuse the term "pick up line" with sleazy saying like "Nice shoes, let's have sex!" The goal here is to be NON-THREATENING, remember?

A good pick up line is something that will start an innocent conversation with the girl you're approaching. Examples of a good line would be to ask her opinion on something and then continue the conversation by asking more questions about her opinion.

When approaching a woman, it's important that you approach her from an ANGLE. Most guys charge towards the girl they want to meet like they're marching to war! Coming in at an angle is much less confrontational and will put the girl at ease on a subconscious level.

Remember this golden rule of pick-up: Attraction can only happen when the girl is COMFORTABLE with you! Because of this, it is also vitally important that YOU feel comfortable when approaching women.

It's natural to feel uncomfortable meeting attractive women, but remember - practice makes perfect! If you take the time to go out and practice meeting women, over time it will become easier and you'll be more comfortable with doing it.

Simply reading about meeting women or studying techniques is not going to help you get good at approaching women. If you want real success, you actually have to go out in the real world and meet lots of women so you can build your
experience level. And the cool thing is - the more you do it, the easier it gets!

If you're afraid of rejection, adjust your goals so that it's hard to get rejected. Too many guys try and get the phone number, the date, or the quick romp in the sack.
Instead, take baby steps and set your goal as just talking to the girl and carrying on a conversation. Use that as your measure of success. Remember, you're just learning the right way of doing things.

That's all you need to do!

See how many girls you can talk to in one night, and keep trying to beat your score.

One last note - try and use a "time constraint" whenever you approach a woman. This is as easy as saying you can only talk for a minute before you have to run.

Time constraints let the girl you're talking to know that you're not trying to monopolize her time, and that this will be a quick conversation. Because of this, she'll be more willing to engage in your talk.

Don't worry about putting a time limit on yourself. Once the conversation picks up, the girl will forget about your time constraint and you can talk to her as long as you want.
Remember, the goal here is just to get the conversation started, and a good time constraint will help you do that!

Be aware that the dating game is actually a numbers game. You need to meet as many women as possible to find that one special girl who will change your life.