Author and Flirting Expert Mimi Tanner reveals the secrets of getting the attention and devotion of your man. Her email column "With Love, Mimi Tanner" is read by thousands of women every day. Visit her website and find out more about How To Flirt With Men.

"Flirting With Men Takes You From Nice to Charming"

By Mimi Tanner, Author of Secrets of Flirting With Men

When you flirt with a man, you stay in a that man's mind - sometimes for years!

Anyone can have a conversation - but flirting shows that you really care about him, not just as a person, but as a man!

The art of flirting can take you from nice to charming.

Flirting is not just for romance. A true flirt uses almost every encounter with a man to make him feel more like a man - making him feel charmed and wanted and special. Men love it when a woman cares enough to flirt with them.

Flirting sends a man the kind of message that is vital to his sense of masculinity and his self-esteem. There are so many men who are simply starved for this kind of attention.

Why not practice your flirting on the men you consider to be "safe"?

Why not flirt with men a little more today than you did yesterday?

Start with a warm smile for everyone. That's the first step in practicing flirting. And smiling is not against the law, the last time I checked!

But what if you don't habitually flash everyone a big smile as you go about your day?

In that case, don't make sudden radical changes in your behavior. That can cause your friends and co-workers to wonder what's up with you!

The best way to incorporate a new behavior in your life is in small doses. Otherwise, you may abandon a good effort before you've even begun. Whatever you do, keep flirting with men until it becomes as easy as saying hello.

Stay with it. Just flirt a LITTLE more today than you did yesterday. Start with smiling MORE. At everyone!

If you're married, small changes are a great way to start being more flirtatious with your husband. Start with a longer kiss hello or goodbye. Start showing more happiness with the world and with him.

Little changes go a long way when you increase the amount of flirting in your life.

Flirting says, "I find you attractive - I notice that you are a man - and I am a woman!"

It's a message that will never, ever go out of style.

Remember to keep your flirt on! Read more about how to flirt with men at my website FlirtWithMen.com.